I want to begin the process here of making folks more aware that our bewilderment is caused by unseen forces. Often we are guided by our trauma and we don’t know it.  These unseen forces, or root causes, compound over time and develop into symptoms. For instance, life is relationships, everything can be seen through the lens of how we are in relation with others. When our trauma is doing the driving however, our relationships can devolve into toxic environments of our own making. A tough concept to understand sometimes is that our scars are doing the talking in these contentious moments, not our hearts or minds. This is how Trauma and Reactivity evolve into root problems over time.